Words
Wednesday, September 20, 2006
Yes words, they can either make you or simply break you.
It's a every day thing we speak with our own languages. The words we used in our conversations, expressions, hatred, love.
Somehow words are somewhat capable of being the healing mechanism OR a leathal weapon.
There are times whereby the simple choice of words is enough. Enough to heal or to hurt.
It feels good doesnt it when you know your "words" made someone's day.
YES, that maybe true. Cause usually you know it when the fella says "Thank you, you just made my day." and stuff.
But there are also times whereby your "words" actually cause much pain.
YES, you may think nothing of it, but to the other party it would be a spear into his heart.
It's not a good feeling at all. Those laser sharp words keep floating around in your mind like a ballon. Just that it doesn't burst at all, no matter how hard you try.
I feel that no matter what it maybe, a friendship, relationship, what ever damn ship it is, we should not keep "it" buried inside us for long.
Just like mommy says, the longer you keep it buried the more it'll accumulate. Till one day when you can't take it no more, you let it all out and "BOOM".
Something happens and it's all too
late to change.
I learnt something a while back. It's called complimenting others. Why be thrifty when it comes to complimenting others? Cause you think it's weird? You're shy? Or you think its meaningless?
Well to those of you out here who thinks that way, its time for a change.
When you compliment someone, make sure it comse from the bottom of your heart. That someone can sense it and boy the feeling is sweet.
Compliment others wisely and you'll see what I mean.
By the way, complimenting and boot licking is a two very different thing!
I so hate boot lickers, hate you.
* I had the most disgusting dream ever.
posted by Rayner who killed a lamb again at 11:29 PM